Monday, July 15, 2013

In Memoriam - Jerry Merrill

My dad passed away a year ago today, July 15th, 2012. Before he died, we talked about my plans to attempt an AT thru-hike this summer. Dad was an avid outdoorsman; he would have loved to have come hiking with me if he could.

Dad left my sisters and I a pretty long list of places in Maine where he wanted his ashes spread: lakes and brooks where he fished for trout, hills where he went rockhounding, meadows where he picked blueberries. We started last summer, but it will take us a while to get through the list!

I also brought some of Dad's ashes with me on the hike. I've now spread his ashes in each of the states (except Maine) along the trail; I have some left for the top of Katahdin when (and if!) I get there.

Like I said, Dad would have loved to be out here with me. He would have fit right in. Just like all the hikers I've met along the trail, Dad was a true lover of nature, a friend to everybody, and a gentle spirit. And, in a way that seems very real to me, he has been with me...every step of the way. Here's to you, Dad! Thanks for walking with me.

 

3 comments:

  1. Some of his ashes are on the farm: in the mountain cranberry patch, under the yellow transparent apple tree and at the trout hole by the culvert. All places he liked

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  2. I have been following your blog for sometime and felt compelled to write you. The tribute to your father is beautifully written. When I read it, I find myself getting welled up thinking about my wonderful parents who are no longer with us. I know your Dad would be so happy to see you fulfilling your dream and that his spirit will forever live in your heart:)

    Hope you continue to have a safe journey!

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  3. Yes, Jerry would have loved to have been there with you!!
    A touching tribute~ but he is watching you, I believe~~
    Yes Be safe!

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